You were not born a sinner. You are not inherently tainted. You are not naturally broken. You are not impure because of your thoughts or your actions. You can be loved unconditionally, without the threat of disfellowship, abandonment, or even torture.
To perpetuate such damaging rhetoric is abusive: it causes unimaginable harm to real world humans.
a man: men now have to think before they speak, they are afraid to be criticized or accused of something, can we believe that we have to live like this now?? uwu
all the women that had to grown up being super self-aware of what they wear, what they think, what they say, how they act, where they are, with whom, etc in every aspect of their life, all the time, in this sexist society (especially women of color, non-straight women and trans women): good. finally you all have to learn how to behave.
“Study me as much as you like, you will never know me. For I differ a hundred ways from what you see me to be. Put yourself behind my eyes, and see me as I see myself. Because I have chosen to dwell in a place you can’t see.”